gh-112026: Restore removed _PyDict_GetItemStringWithError()

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Restore the removed _PyDict_GetItemStringWithError() function. It is used by numpy.

• Issue: [C API] Revert of private functions removed in Python 3.13 causing most problems #112026

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@serhiy-storchaka: This private function is no longer used by Python, but I restore it to unblock numpy on Python 3.13 (keep dependency in the Python ecosystem). Later, I plan to deprecate this function and write documentation on how to update existing code using it. Apparently, just removing private functions without providing any solution didn't "please" users.

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Is not PyDict_GetItemStringRef() the solution? It bhas different interface, but it is easy to write a wrapper.

PyObject *
_PyDict_GetItemStringWithError(PyObject *obj, const char *key)
{
    PyObject *value;
    (void)PyDict_GetItemStringRef(obj, key, &value);
    if (Py_REFCNT(value) == 1) {
        Py_DECREF(value);
        return NULL;
    }
    Py_DECREF(value);
    return value;
}

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Is not PyDict_GetItemStringRef() the solution? It bhas different interface, but it is easy to write a wrapper.

Solution to which problem? numpy doesn't built if Python C API doesn't contain _PyDict_GetItemStringWithError(). I restored the function to unblock numpy.

I plan to update numpy, deprecate _PyDict_GetItemStringWithError(), and later remove it.